Are you able to post a link to what you ordered on the German Amazon? And this is the amp and speakers? Main thing for now is that it seems like this is doable for not that much $ and minimal hassle. Thanks!
Crutchfield is the best around, but they are SO much more expensive than in Germany it just doesn't make sense.
Here are the German Amazon links:
Focal Inside IS VW 165 (fronts, separate tweeters) €169 plus €45 shipping, about $233 total vs. $380 at Crutchfield
(click "see all buying options", there's a seller with 100% positive feedback)
Focal Inside IC VW 165 (rears, with built-in "coaxial" tweeters) €129 plus €59 shipping, about $206 shipped vs. $330 at Crutchfield
(only seller has poor feedback, 73%. I ordered from them and they were fine, but YMMV)
Focal IHF06 Speaker simulator
Kicker 47KEY200.4 4-channel Amp, $240 at Crutchfield
I actually bought both the ISVW165 and ICVW165 from the poorly reviewed seller,
extremeaudio, and everything arrived quickly and in good condition. That was the best way to make shipping affordable, since Amazon.de automatically adjusted the shipping for the combined items. It ended up costing "only" €79 or so for shipping.
If you want to get the nicer Flax Evo series that the OP bought:
Focal Flax Evo PS 165 FXE (fronts with separate tweeters and crossover. will need adapter rings) €330 plus shipping vs. $680 at Crutchfield
Focal Flax PC 165 FE - mis-labeled as PS165FE, but look at model number. It is PC165FE (rears with built-in "coaxial" tweeters) €219 plus shipping direct from extremeaudio*
*you can order direct from Amazon as the seller, but they say shipping in 6-7 MONTHS.
If you order everything from the same seller you'll save a bundle on shipping.
The cheaper "Focal Inside" series are supposedly really nice, don't require speaker adapter rings, wiring harness adapters, or crossovers (included with Flax series).
They are also $330 for both sets combined, before shipping, vs. roughly $600 for the Flax series.
Let us know what you decide to do.